He deceives himself who thinks that to be a gentleman is to just open the car door for the woman and pay her account in the restaurant, in truth, these concepts are outdated in a world where women are self sufficient, you can even do this kindly – that never hurts – but don’t think that this is a done spectacular.
Currently the chivalry is much more connected to righteousness of character, ethics, education, elegance, collegiality and helpfulness. The gentleman is fair and treats everyone with equality, helping that you note this need and supporting those who deserve your consideration. The goal of the gentleman is to make the world a place more pleasant and civilized.
Liked the idea? So pay attention to the 20 commandments that can make a gentleman best in 2017:
1 – Keep away from prejudice
Prejudice of any kind should stay away from, I could make a huge list giving examples of how he makes you lose a good experience, meet nice people and learn more, but I think unnecessary. The true gentleman treats all with equality.
2 – Don’t judge without basis
A gentleman does not put labels on people, he expects to know better and then have an opinion based on the person. You do not need to like everyone, but it is also not something fashionable to despise a person because of the detail surface.
3 –Don’t go by hypes
The gentleman is not going along with the herd, he has formed an opinion, or, if you do not know the subject, expected to fetch more information about it and can opine or choose. This is the basis of style and striking personality of the gentleman.
4 – Respect the opinion of others
Ie: do not repeat in your life, what people do on the internet that is quit attacking anyone who has an argument contrary to yours. Learn to listen to and reflect on the points presented, you may change your opinion, or become even more convinced of their beliefs.
5 – Show empathy
This is lacking today, since when people see a person in a bad situation prefer desclassificá it to try to understand how she got to that point. The ability to understand feelings and emotions of others that separates us from barbarism!
6 – Be gentleman, be well!
Take of your head the picture of the guy in the top hat, cane and monocle, to be a gentleman is to be useful to society, someone who cares about others and seeks to pass it on. The gentleman wears well because you have self-esteem, knowledge and education, but does not need to be a peacock!
7 – Use a tone of voice low
After the visual, the tone of voice is the elements that most helps people form a first opinion, so talk so nice and pleasant, be friendly and pass the image of a true gentleman, always being remembered for this.
8 – Treat with equality
The kindness selective shows a lot about a individual, who is friendly with the restaurant owner, but utters threats, the waiter can not be considered a gentleman, if this is the case, go back to item 1.
9 – Be helpful
The gentleman always cares for the well-being of the next. If you show helpful is a rule in the life of those who have a minimum of uprightness of character, and knows that situations can reverse.
10 – Dress for the occasions
Don’t dress well only when you want to impress, learn to respect the places and occasions and dressing appropriately for each of them.
11 – Take your eyes off of the gadgets and pay attention to people
If you meet with people is to talk with them and enjoy their company, not to get glaze on the big screen of the smartphone giving attention to other things. A gentleman must know to develop a nice conversation and focus on the party.
12 – Exit out of the vulgarity
Applaud the vulgarity has become fashionable, it seems that praising the one song with lyrics that are obscene or video degrading is if the show took off, but in fact it is a hell of imbecility. Spend your time with something constructive.
13 – Be democratic
Do not try to impose your taste, listen to others and reach a consensus, so it is better for everyone. If it is to set up a meeting, for example, make sure that it is in a location that is accessible and that the account fits in the pocket of all.
14 – Praise whenever possible
Do not strip piece to compliment people, even for small achievements or personal details, in addition this type of attitude, you makes a person memorable, the whole world will want to around for the be to guarantee a nice day!
15 – Recognize your mistakes
To err is human, but to deny them is not honest with voc6e nor with the other. Learn to recognize your mistakes and apologize, if you are dealing with other gentlemen they will be able to understand and forgive.
16 – To Know what is the time to stand out
Don’t try to be the center of attention always, it is important to stand out by their positive characteristics (good humor, intelligence, etc.), but it is also necessary to give space to others and enjoy their company.
17 – Give the proper credits
If someone gave you a good idea and you ran with success, do not take the credit for it, keep the people value are so close and so well seen as you are. The good gentlemen are fair and work in perfect harmony with the team!
18 – Value enriching experiences
Not everything is glamour, but often a simple experience can bring you a lot of learning, in addition to a different perspective of who makes always the same for the sake of status. Remember, the pousadinha simple you can stay in a beautiful beach and exclusive where it is not a five star hotel.
19 – Help a cause
Always have someone in need of help, support institutions in Brazil are not lacking, and even though you can’t actively participate, you can contribute in various ways, either with money or with clothes that you no longer use.
20 – Pass the knowledge along
Everything you learn can be passed on, not only does this make you a better person as will turn all your back. It can be something as simple as passing a hint of style that you saw here in the Channel Male for that your friend that does not understand much of the subject, or even a way to optimize the time-to a work colleague who lives with the overdue tasks, in the end everyone comes out winning!
Many of these concepts were already part of chivalry 1.0, others have been getting with the change of customs, the fact is that you never need much of a world with people who value these 20 items. Anyway it is good to keep alive the old concepts of the good gentleman as:
- Tell please, and the quarrel;
- Work hard;
- Have good manners;
- Not pragueje not use bad words;
- Keep your word;
- Open the doors to other people;
- Cultivate good posture;
- Take care of grooming;
- Stay away from gossip;
- Stay humble
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